
The other day at the basketball game, my parents, my friend, and I were standing in line, waiting anxiously for the doors to open to watch an exciting game. After standing around for about half an hour, I realized that the line was moving incredibly slow. I watched for a few minutes and soon decided that this was partially due to people strolling up to the front of the line instead of waiting their turn behind everyone else in the back.
I consider myself a pretty calm and understanding person, but I admit I was getting a little annoyed. I wasn't so much concerned with getting good seats or being one of the first in the gym, but I was disturbed by these people's inconsideration.
Now my dad isn't a mean or short-tempered guy by any means, but after watching several pairs of adults pass us and everyone else in line, my dad had had enough. Just as another man tried to shove his way past my dad, my dad asked him politely to wait at the end of the line. The guy responded rudely and continued, saying something along the lines of "I have business up there." This could've been true, but somehow I doubt it. They exchanged words for a few minutes before the man snootily proceded to the front of the line.
When my dad first confronted the man, I admit to being embarrassed. Several people around us were watching the conversation, and I was a little ashamed that my friend was seeing my dad like this. As the conversation continued though, I realized my dad was doing absolutely nothing wrong. In fact, he was standing up for himself and everyone else who had allowed these people to pass them. I kept waiting for the bystanders in line to support my dad, and when no one did, I considered saying something to him. The guy had a good 100+ lbs on me though, so I decided I'd sit this one out. Being a "kid", I also didn't think I'd be taken seriously.
Looking back, I regret not doing anything. I feel like the anonymous man probably would have laughed at me, but I could care less. As for my weight... it is extremely unlikely that a middle-aged man is going to throw punches at a female half his size. Whereas I was originally embarrassed about my dad's actions, I'm now embarrassed that I stood there doing nothing.
Equally upsetting, however, is the fact that no one else did anything either. It seems silly to get in an argument about someone "cutting" in line, but if we allow people to get away with these types of things constantly, the next time it will be something else, something bigger.
I guess my point is making a difference can be hard, but we can make it easier for one another by
standing up for ourselves and each another. Too many times we let others push us around. Be the person that isn't afraid to voice yourself when you see something you don't agree with. And if you see someone doing the same, don't hesitate to support them.